Question for the guys from a girl...

[Kellym__]

Back story: Been to Vegas 3 times with only 2-3 girls each time, so we obviously never get a table or bottle service or anything. Usually will text a promoter or meet one during the day and get hooked up with no line/no cover. Once inside, we always end up kickin it at a table with some guys we've met throughout the night.... I swear we're not leaches and it's not our mission to do this, but legit sometimes we meet people so fast we don't even have time to go buy a drink for ourselves before we are invited to drink their booze! Also, we always get some good pre-gaming in so we really don't drink much of the bottles anyways.
So my question is, what do guys think of girls that come and join your table? Do you think we are cheap, money-wise? Is your end game always to get a girl back to your room? (Permitted you are attracted to her of course). Are there actually guys who just want a good night of fun, and if something were to happen afterwards... then great, if not, whatever?
Not to say me and my friends would never go back to a guys room, but, it's more likely to not happen than to happen We are just looking to have a good, wild, liquired and blurry night and meet new people! But honestly, sometimes we feel bad at the end of the night - always wondering if guys expect more out of us if we are drinking their bottle service.
So, watcha guys think? Just curious!

[ocam]

Personally, girls don't even find their way to my table unless I invite them over. That is, I will walk through the crowd and chat to particular people - I won't let her know I have a table until I have talk to her / screened her for a bit. If she has a sense of humour and can sustain a conversation, then she passes the test and I will ask if she wants to join us at our table.

My angle isn't to try and liquor girls up and hook up with them when their defences are down; just to have a good time and good company. But it's definitely true that some guys (even guys in my group) have hooking up as their main target and then just scour for "willing participants".

I think everyone understands how Vegas works -- the guys pay, the girls play. And to be honest, the guys purely looking for hook ups aren't going to judge a girl as "cheap" who comes and drinks with them -- having a table is part of the game they're running and they depend on girls drinking with them. It's a risk they take -- they're well aware that the girl might say no at the end of the night, and take their chances.

[Jhaulotte]

Well we only allow girls we want to come to the table so we never have any problems with them doing so. I dont think we ever thought the girls were cheap that have joined us either. Were just careful to watch their behavior at first when they sit down because my group isnt really fans of girls that take a lot of liberties with the booze right away. As for ending up together, if it happens then it happens but its never expected or anything crazy like that. If youre fun and everyone is getting along then the more the merrier

[D7KIK]

I think this is a great thread Kellym__
I think ull find that most guys are happy to have girls over at there table, provided the girls are fun to be around, and know how to party and have a good time, some expect more in return and some dont.
From my experience, girls who ask to join the table are usually there for the drinks, some of them still like mingle and be 'friendly' and others dont. Others who are asked to join the table and we chat them up earlier are usually there because there genuinely interested.
Meeting girls during the day on the strip or at the pool and then inviting them out to join the table at night I found to be the best way, especially if your looking to get them back to the room by the end of the night

[nighthawk06si]

Personally, girls don't even find their way to my table unless I invite them over. That is, I will walk through the crowd and chat to particular people - I won't let her know I have a table until I have talk to her / screened her for a bit. If she has a sense of humour and can sustain a conversation, then she passes the test and I will ask if she wants to join us at our table.

My angle isn't to try and liquor girls up and hook up with them when their defences are down; just to have a good time and good company. But it's definitely true that some guys (even guys in my group) have hooking up as their main target and then just scour for "willing participants".

I think everyone understands how Vegas works -- the guys pay, the girls play. And to be honest, the guys purely looking for hook ups aren't going to judge a girl as "cheap" who comes and drinks with them -- having a table is part of the game they're running and they depend on girls drinking with them. It's a risk they take -- they're well aware that the girl might say no at the end of the night, and take their chances.

^ that's how I see it.

girls that I go out into the crowd and invite back I don't consider them cheap. The ones that stroll thru the bottle service area like for example the ones that go up the elevated grand cabana platform at Marquee that weren't invited to a cabana or know anyone at any of the cabanas are the ones I keep a close eye on to make sure they don't make their way over to my area.

[tomm0]

Interesting thread this!

Kel - Basically I enjoy the night better if we have female company but thats jus cos I enjoy chatting to people and meeting mates along the way. Of course though I am also looking to hook up at the end of the night, as a single guy... Always.

I dont mind girls coming by to stop for a drink, even bottle hawks. Im usually with one or two other chaps and we have 3 bottles of vodka. We aint gonna drink it all and im not one of these guys that gets arsey if someone pinches a drink.

By and large though, I guess if your group spends the evening with guys, has their drinks and then leaves without a single one of them hooking up or going to a room with one of the guys then thats basically bottle hawking in my eyes! Sure its being friendly, but lets not pretend youre gonna be best buddies with these guys after one night huh! Everyone knows the reality here

[bc86]

yeah i always wondered about this too...

met some nice guys last time i was in vegas at wet republic who had a cabana and they asked me and a friend to join them early in the day. shouted us drinks all day and were really friendly but didnt try to crack onto us or anything, pretty sure they were all in relationships actually. i found that really nice for a change, where im from guys would never buy a girl a drink and not expect something in return

[gubuju]

I usually scout and get a feel for the girl before offering them a drink. If i meet them away from the table, I do not let them know what we have a table. If i feel like they are cool and down to earth, ill invite them back to a table for a drink or two.

The groups of girls that walks around to tables for drinks are instant motion to security to escort them out, aint nobody got time for dat!

[Kellym__]

Haha very interesting answers! Good to know. 2 more weeks till I'm back! Can't wait.

Thanks for the replies!

[Chris300zx6]

Honestly it's about the good time, my game isn't to get them drunk to take em back to the room. When you are having a good time you are vibing and more than likely the chick will decide she wants to go back with you. Of course guys want to get laid, and yea it is part of our end game. But personally, myself, if I had a table I wouldn't be drinking you down to do that. I would make sure you seem like a great time and party with you and show you a great time so you can vibe off me. Also I don't think girls that accept invitations to join at BS are cheap. If you are out in the crowd and we spot you, its because you had some sort of appeal to us, I don't think the thought of cheap crosses our minds.

[kazflair]

As a host, guys ask me to bring girls to their tables and they know that it's a crap shoot. Now personally.... when I'm partying and popping bottles with a crew of guys on the prowl we have a few rules....
1. Avoid Bachelorette or really large groups, like the plague
2. The girls that seemed truly married or attached, we kick them out of the table quick

We only want girls that wanna party and are interactive with the guys, not on your phone on FB, tweeting, sexting your BF back home, sitting there sipping and not interacting. We will tell you to bounce....

[Jhaulotte]

As a host, guys ask me to bring girls to their tables and they know that it's a crap shoot. Now personally.... when I'm partying and popping bottles with a crew of guys on the prowl we have a few rules....
1. Avoid Bachelorette or really large groups, like the plague
2. The girls that seemed truly married or attached, we kick them out of the table quick

We only want girls that wanna party and are interactive with the guys, not on your phone on FB, tweeting, sexting your BF back home, sitting there sipping and not interacting. We will tell you to bounce....

That sums it up

[BayAreaOlli]

As long as you are fun to hang out then everything is cool, even if let's be honest for 99% of the guys the real end goal is to hook up. And no "cheap" is never something that crosses my mind.

Now one group I honestly can't stand are the "Recon Girls". Small group of girls (2-3 normally) checking out the tables, you start chatting and invite them to your table and 15 minutes later you got them and their 10 friends at your table without them ever asking if it's okay that their friends join, even worse some of them are guys. That's when security is really helpful .

Another good one is you start chatting with a girl and you give her a drink, then she says she got to talk to her friend really quick, comes back a minute later without the drink and says she dropped it and if she could have a new one even though I saw her give it to her friend not 10 yards away , that's normally my cue to say bye.

[Tara Denise]

Now one group I honestly can't stand are the "Recon Girls". Small group of girls (2-3 normally) checking out the tables, you start chatting and invite them to your table and 15 minutes later you got them and their 10 friends at your table without them ever asking if it's okay that their friends join, even worse some of them are guys. That's when security is really helpful .

Another good one is you start chatting with a girl and you give her a drink, then she says she got to talk to her friend really quick, comes back a minute later without the drink and says she dropped it and if she could have a new one even though I saw her give it to her friend not 10 yards away , that's normally my cue to say bye.

Hahahaha oh wow, people actually do stuff like that?!

[ccc]

All the time