Question for the guys from a girl...

[nighthawk06si]

Now one group I honestly can't stand are the "Recon Girls". Small group of girls (2-3 normally) checking out the tables, you start chatting and invite them to your table and 15 minutes later you got them and their 10 friends at your table without them ever asking if it's okay that their friends join, even worse some of them are guys. That's when security is really helpful .

Another good one is you start chatting with a girl and you give her a drink, then she says she got to talk to her friend really quick, comes back a minute later without the drink and says she dropped it and if she could have a new one even though I saw her give it to her friend not 10 yards away , that's normally my cue to say bye.

Hahahaha oh wow, people actually do stuff like that?!

you'd be surprised... That's why girls that go looking for tables are bad news to guys, most of the girls I know that do exactly what BayArea just said when they're in vegas have guys back home too..
Guys have strategies to try to hook up with a girl in vegas, girls have strategies to get as many free drinks as possible by the end of the night.

[deejay1]

Most of it is about having a good time, but as single lads there is always going to be the thought of maybe getting someone back to your room. It's just natural if you ask me.

I go in 2 weeks as well Kelly, maybe will bump into each other and I can join your table, bit of a role reversal ha.

[Tara Denise]

I just cannot imagine being so shameless and rude!

So here's a question: since I'm not single, should I just avoid meeting people altogether? I always feel weird about that. I love meeting new people and having fun, but the night will never end in me hooking up with someone.

I'm usually pretty up front about it, especially to the poor schmucks who feel like they have to Wing Man me so their buddies can hook up with my friends (I've never stopped a friend from hooking up with anybody- even if they aren't single, it's not really my responsibility). I don't know if they take me seriously though...

I'm not someone who is on my phone ignoring people (I HATE that), and I don't take drinks from someone I won't at least hang out with for awhile, but I still feel bad like they're wasting their time.

[jbball50]

Having a girl that gets drinks bought for is good though. She just hands me over the drinks the guys buy her! Haha less money I have to spend. But yeah some of the girls are bad in Vegas. When I was there for Halloween weekend last year at the bank on Sunday, there was a girl that was pretty much begging the owner, from what it looked like and the security guy that were by the area of bottle service to let her in. She tried talking to them for like 15 minutes and they finally let her in. Once she was in she looked lost, looking all around, it was a pretty funny sight to see though.

[ccc]

No you don't have to avoid people. As long as you are talking to people, and having a good time it's usually fine.

[Freakzilla69]

Honestly it depends on the personality of the girls. If they expect free shit just cause they are hot then kick rocks. If they are genuinely interested in the guys and having a good time then great. Don't just go to someone's table if you don't even find the guys attractive. That ain't cool to lead people on.

[BayAreaOlli]

I just cannot imagine being so shameless and rude!

So here's a question: since I'm not single, should I just avoid meeting people altogether? I always feel weird about that. I love meeting new people and having fun, but the night will never end in me hooking up with someone.

I'm usually pretty up front about it, especially to the poor schmucks who feel like they have to Wing Man me so their buddies can hook up with my friends (I've never stopped a friend from hooking up with anybody- even if they aren't single, it's not really my responsibility). I don't know if they take me seriously though...

I'm not someone who is on my phone ignoring people (I HATE that), and I don't take drinks from someone I won't at least hang out with for awhile, but I still feel bad like they're wasting their time.

Not at all Tara, nothing wrong with meeting new people even if you aren't planning to hook up. And if you're upfront about it and the wing man still hangs out with you then it's because he decided you are fun to hang out with no matter what otherwise even as a wing man he would eventually move on, so there's nothing to feel bad about.

You're more than welcome to hang out at my table anyday, if you can talk SEC football .

[Freshness]

Good topic. As long as the girl is having fun and talking to the guys and being flirty everything should be fine.
Nothing is expected except to be having a good time.

Two rules I have that are major no-no's:
1 - she asks for a drink (i always offer but if you're asking than beat it)
2 - she grabs the bottle herself and starts pouring. It's never happened to me (that i know of at least lol) but if i see it she's instantly gone

[cre487]

As a host, guys ask me to bring girls to their tables and they know that it's a crap shoot. Now personally.... when I'm partying and popping bottles with a crew of guys on the prowl we have a few rules....
1. Avoid Bachelorette or really large groups, like the plague
2. The girls that seemed truly married or attached, we kick them out of the table quick

We only want girls that wanna party and are interactive with the guys, not on your phone on FB, tweeting, sexting your BF back home, sitting there sipping and not interacting. We will tell you to bounce....

Not trying to be rude...I totally agree to #1. Most bachelorette parties are lame and such a let down lol. I partied with a bachelorette group from Mexico City once, and they were fun. other than that...boooorrriiiinnnnggg. We typically avoid them also.

[Kellym__]

Haha happy to say that I've never been booted from someone's table... but I've never asked for a drink, poured the bottle myself, or taken drinks and given them to other friends!

It'd be pretty funny to hear how a guy asks a girl to beat it tho haha

[Tara Denise]

Most bachelorette parties are lame and such a let down lol. I partied with a bachelorette group from Mexico City once, and they were fun. other than that...boooorrriiiinnnnggg. We typically avoid them also.

What, you don't think that sashes, tiaras and/or plastic penis straws are exciting?

It'd be pretty funny to hear how a guy asks a girl to beat it tho haha

I know! Let's hear some stories, guys! I imagine you usually just get security to remove them?

[nighthawk06si]

Most bachelorette parties are lame and such a let down lol. I partied with a bachelorette group from Mexico City once, and they were fun. other than that...boooorrriiiinnnnggg. We typically avoid them also.

What, you don't think that sashes, tiaras and/or plastic penis straws are exciting?

It'd be pretty funny to hear how a guy asks a girl to beat it tho haha

I know! Let's hear some stories, guys! I imagine you usually just get security to remove them?

That's why they get paid to be there lol.
Usually my group just ignores them cause they aren't being socially active with us and they just leave or i tip security to kick them out if I want them gone asap.

[gubuju]

Most bachelorette parties are lame and such a let down lol. I partied with a bachelorette group from Mexico City once, and they were fun. other than that...boooorrriiiinnnnggg. We typically avoid them also.

What, you don't think that sashes, tiaras and/or plastic penis straws are exciting?

It'd be pretty funny to hear how a guy asks a girl to beat it tho haha

I know! Let's hear some stories, guys! I imagine you usually just get security to remove them?

at the beginning of hte night, we tip our security extra and they remove them at a moments notice

[AusVIP]

This thread is extremely interesting. As I am in Vegas in 3 weeks, and have bottle service going, I want the company however, if the fun keeps going back at the "afterparty" then so be it.

However, just thinking and taking some learnings from experiences here... would you just use your host or security to do a little bit of the ground work for you. Try to get an initial understanding of the girls. That way you tell you host etc you only want single girls (maybe no more than 3 or 4) depending on size of your group. Banish the recons out and do your dirty work shoudl you want to remove them because they are boring/attached/only interested in the booze etc.

This way you dont come off looking the like a$$hole.

However, you would want to qualify as quickly as possible, so that if you need to re-scout you can.

[boags]

Cool thread.

My 2c is that it all basically comes down to respect, and respect is a two way street.

Guys shouldn't expect girls to be obligated to put out if they're partying on their table. Girls shouldn't treat tables as simply a source of free drinks and somewhere to sit. When you first start chatting together, it shouldn't take to long to get a feel for whether the other group is at. If I get a sense that a girl or group of girls are pure and simple just trying to use me, I boot em out, but I've also booted guys from a table who were being douche bags to the girls.

If you don't give respect, don't expect any in return.