To wear or not to wear

[pcket5s]

but what i am saying is that to have casual friendly conversation, having a ring on your finger does not make any difference. the only difference it makes is where the conversation goes.

+1.. I totally agree with tangos aforementioned comment. I don't think I have ever met any one that has been like uh oh he/she has a ring on...therefore I can't talk/hang out, get to know them.

[tangoplus]

+1.. I totally agree with tangos aforementioned comment. I don't think I have ever met any one that has been like uh oh he/she has a ring on...therefore I can't talk/hang out, get to know them.

exactly.. my friends and i have had good times with group of married men . no big deal.. we were all single, but they were married (well almost all married, except one who was goin to get married soon).

but since our intensions were just to laugh and have drinks, we really didn't care. they were very nice gentlemen like, and all around nice friendly guys from atlanta, and were in town for a bachelor party.

[dnix]

can i see your ring finger?

Ill post a pic, just give me a couple of days.

[Guest]

My "intentions" are not to hook up, but I want to have a great time even if I am solo. My thoughts are that if I have the ring on, it may be harder to strike up conversations and/or meet others that I may be able to hang with as far as nightlife goes.

I should have been more clear in my original post.

That is so far from the truth! Its easier to talk to women because they want something thats unattainable most of the time. You will be more of a "catch" and challenge to them. I actually have a buddy that has a fake wedding ring he uses when we goes out. Its pretty much guaranteed that he will be mingling with someone throughout the course of the night.

PS. Its wrong, I don't play that way But then I m not married either...

[ashroid]

My married friend says I should wear a ring because it will look like I'm married, therefore I'm less of a threat. He's even offered to let me borrow his on occasion.

I think it's kind of a douche-bag move though.

+1 on most thoughts that you don't need to take your ring off to strike up a conversation.

[uejjap]

Oh boy....I knew I'd get a few of these replies, but didnt expect it so soon.

Wow yea, that WAS quick... I wouldn't wear a ring, period.

[pcket5s]

I actually have a buddy that has a fake wedding ring he uses when we goes out. Its pretty much guaranteed that he will be mingling with someone throughout the course of the night.

george costanza style....GEORGE is getting UPSET!

[Guest]

george costanza style....GEORGE is getting UPSET!

lol thats probably where he stole that trick from.

[SoCal Girl]

I don't think it matters if you wear your ring. My friend and I went last month (both married, both wore rings) and hung out with other married people and single people. We did run into a divorce party...they gave us crap for being married. No biggie we understood.

Besides I think wedding rings on guys are sexy. I am always cleaning my husbands for him. Mmm nothing like a shiny ring.

[Guest]

Besides I think wedding rings on guys are sexy.

Thanks for proving my point

[SoCal Girl]

Thanks for proving my point

I am only one out of millions of other girls. YMMV (Your Mileage May Vary) by wearing a ring or not.

[yo vanilla]

If you're just looking for people (girls) to talk and hang out with, the ring will probably benefit you because they'll be less likely to wonder if you're trying to get in their pants.

[Keebler]

Im going to speak from experience.... You meet a million more girls when you have a wedding ring on. I always have mine and its like a magnet, haha.