Which Bars / clubs / lounges for an older crowd?

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Rhino

If you want a club, tryst and xs are good options. If you want something a bit more lounge, try gold or cathouse. Blue martini might be worth a look too, especially on a Wednesday.

Just a heads up on Blue Martini - Wednesday is so-called "ladies" night. Some of my local buddies dragged me out there and we paid like $20 to get in only to find the ratio was 2:1 guys to girls and the drink prices are comparable to strip pricing (for guys that is, ladies get discounted drinks). I consider it false advertising but then again they don't guarantee that the ladies will outnumber the guys...just sayin'.