Tips on having fun on the dance floor with girls?

[rsxxx21]

Hello guys! I just joined this website. I've heard of you guys from a friend and decided to join today. I'm a vegas (or clubbing in general) newbie and I was wondering if you guys can help me out.

Our group, 4 guys and 2 girls will be going to Vegas. We have 2 couples with us so most likely me and one of my boys will be doing our own things in the club. We won't be getting a bottle service.

I'm not looking for 1 night lays or anything too crazy, just have to massive fun on the dance floor lol.

I'm not a GOOD dancer, but I do very much enjoy getting hammered and shaking my booty (no homo). So what are some things I can do to help with my chances with having fun with the females on the floor?

I realize I shouldn't come off as threatening or too desperate...so do I just sit back a bit, dance by myself, check out the scene and move to girls? Do I ask them if they wanna dance or do I just sort of start dancing next to them (of course, without sticking my junk into them from behind out of nowhere..lol) and close in?

Any help on this would be very much appreciated~ thanks!

[VegasCherry]

Don't think about it so much. Your best bet is to just ask her if she wants to dance. Anything else might come off as creepy.

if you go to a hip hop club or are in a hip hop room, jumping in behind a girl is the norm~

[xostacylee]

Don't think about it so much. Your best bet is to just ask her if she wants to dance. Anything else might come off as creepy.

if you go to a hip hop club or are in a hip hop room, jumping in behind a girl is the norm~

+1. Asking is always a good idea.

[rsxxx21]

Hmm, I always thought jumping behind the girls without the girl noticing me at all was sort of creepy, from the girl's point of view anyway.

I didn't think actually asking if they want to dance would be ok because well, they are already dancing and all lol. But I'd give it a try. I'm guessing a simple "hey do you wanna dance with me?" would work?

[Guest]

Define "Having fun" on the dance floor?

[MonicaD]

Hmm, I always thought jumping behind the girls without the girl noticing me at all was sort of creepy, from the girl's point of view anyway.

It is for me anyways. I personally can not stand it when a guy comes behind me and decides to grab my hips and thrust his pelvis into me. I like to dance and I like to have fun but I do have my boundaries and still want to be treated with some dignity. But hey, every girl is different this is just my personal opinion.

I didn't think actually asking if they want to dance would be ok because well, they are already dancing and all lol. But I'd give it a try. I'm guessing a simple "hey do you wanna dance with me?" would work?

Asking is always a good thing in my book even if the girl/girls are already dancing. There are times I go out with my girls and I just want to dance and have fun without the pressure of having to dance with a guy. Just depends on my mood that night!

Simplicity is key!! You will get a much better reaction from me (and from the majority of my female friends) if you just ASK versus assuming you can have your way with us on the dance floor!

[MonicaD]

Define "Having fun" on the dance floor?

Ha! My sister and I were out one night dancing with a couple of guys when he decided it would be appropriate to try and put his hand up her dress. She shot me the "look" and I used the oldie but goodie "We have to go to the bathroom" excuse. Poor guy, looked so defeated.

[rsxxx21]

Define "Having fun" on the dance floor?

Fun involves...getting my fingers wet and my..err nvm..I kid I kid Or am I?!?! haha

I guess asking is the simplest way to go, as 3 females all said just ask! I always thought that if I ask, girls would think "wtf is this guy seriously ASKING me if I wanna dance?!"

[Guest]

Define "Having fun" on the dance floor?

Fun involves...getting my fingers wet and my..err nvm..I kid I kid Or am I?!?! haha

I guess asking is the simplest way to go, as 3 females all said just ask! I always thought that if I ask, girls would think "wtf is this guy seriously ASKING me if I wanna dance?!"

hahaha i like the way you roll, you just get to business! I think clubs like Moon you can pull that shit off easily lol Not too sure about the Tier 1 spots. Like time I saw someone straight get boned in a club was out in Panama City Beach FL.

[VegasCherry]

Define "Having fun" on the dance floor?

Fun involves...getting my fingers wet and my..err nvm..I kid I kid Or am I?!?! haha

I guess asking is the simplest way to go, as 3 females all said just ask! I always thought that if I ask, girls would think "wtf is this guy seriously ASKING me if I wanna dance?!"

the difference is you're not just asking them if they want to dance, but if they want to dance with you. You're putting too much thought into it my man. Just go for it. Sometimes you'll fail, more times than not you'll be fine.

[wowzers83]

Don't think about it so much. Your best bet is to just ask her if she wants to dance. Anything else might come off as creepy.

if you go to a hip hop club or are in a hip hop room, jumping in behind a girl is the norm~

+1. Asking is always a good idea.

No. You do not ask a girl to dance. Do you ask a girl "will you be my girlfriend"?

Walk up to her with confindence, knowing you are the man. Display that well, grab her by the hand and start dancing. She will amost never turn you down. She will make a quick decision. If she is not interested for whatever reason, dont take it personal. She will give you a polite smile and say no.
If she wants to grind you she will turn around and start grinding you on her own. Even if she doesnt and she is atleast including you(facing you, smiling etc. if she isnt even facing you move on), just stick around. She has labeled you not creepy and in no time her 4 friends will join you two. Make friends with them all. find out where they are from, how many times they have been there, etc etc. its easy in vegas. Keep an eye out for the next girl you wanna go up to.

If you are really having fun, girls will come up and dance by themselfs or walk by and give you a head shake/pound. not everyone can pull that off though.

[Rozay]

You just got to go for it sometimes, whats the worse that can happen? They dont want to dance with you? Sure there is some other woman that will peep your swag lol

[schen1119]

Might be a little off topic, but I'd recommend a club where you can actually hear the person to whom you're talking before you head to the dance floor. Try Marquee, Tao (beach), or XS. Meet girls outside or near the bars, chat them up a little, be nice, and then head to the dancefloor

[Godzuki]

Don't get a girls hair caught in your tie clip and then get overly aggressive with the asshole(me) laughing and taking pictures.

[MUFC19TIMES]

Use the "3 second rule". If you see a girl you like you must approach and ask her to dance. If it's loud and there may be issues communicating verbally then just use body language. Smile put your hand out and lead. All about being an alpha male. Women love it.