Big Girls in Clubs

[ElineBelbi]

I'm a big girl. I'm 25 years old and I wear anywhere from a size 16 to a size 22.

"Big GIRLS need love too, CRAIG!!!"

Hahahaha, is it bad that I was thinking of that when I posted this?

[ElineBelbi]

Girl, don't sweat it! You're fabulous and you'll have a fabulous time! If you're not looking to get a table, email some hosts/promoters and get on guestlists as a bachelorette party. Have a blast and who cares what who thinks, it's your bachelorette party and all that matters is that you have a good time!

yay thanks! I'm still undecided about a table because I'm figuring out the budget. I know I could afford my part of it, but I'm not sure all of my friends could - sadly.

[superdave]

Girl, I say just dress like you are ready to own the goddamned place and act accordingly. You will have no problem.

Dont think for a second that because guys are trying to gig women to follow them into the club that you cant do the same to them.

You obviously know what you want to do for fun and that is hitting some bad ass clubs and having a bad ass time, GO FOR IT!

I have easier times getting into clubs in Vegas with no sweat than I do here on the goddamned redneck riviera. This coming from a fat mutant mutt of a man.

Why I love Vegas...

[wisepalladin]

don't sweat it, you'll be fine, particularly if its a group of girls for a bachelortte. Clubs love bachelorette parties.

welcome to the boards, and congrats on your engagement!

Fully agree.

Also, lots of guys like bigger women. Just because they haven't piped up doesn't mean they're not thinking it.

Congratulations on your engagement, make sure you stay that way after your trip (or not, ha ha).

I absolutely love curvy women. I want a woman who is healthy...someone who doesn't spend all of her time trying to be smaller by irrationally dieting and criticizing herself. I'm attracted to all different types of women but having some thickness really helps.

Beauty doesn't have a size requirement.

[ElineBelbi]

Aww, again, thanks everybody.

And I know that there are guys out there who love the curvy ladies - I'm marrying one!

Also, I tried to find a full-body picture of myself that was fairly recent, but since I'm usually the group photographer, none existed. The closest I could get is me in my still-unaltered wedding dress. If you can't tell, I need a little more room in the bust. Also, my face is edited out for a) privacy and b) it looks straight up stupid in this picture.

[CalPauly]

And I know that there are guys out there who love the curvy ladies - I'm marrying one!

As the others have pointed out, it's about how your carry and present yourself. Also, if people are going to judge you, then there's something wrong with them and not you. I know girls who are on the curvier side and they are confident in who they are and it sounds like you are too. Have a great time in Vegas and congrats!!

[ElineBelbi]

Thanks! I'm pretty excited! The only real thing I'm concerned about is the hangover on my wedding day...

[CalPauly]

Thanks! I'm pretty excited! The only real thing I'm concerned about is the hangover on my wedding day...

Could you imagine the stories you could be telling your kids or grandkids about the night before your wedding and how crazy it was?

[ElineBelbi]

Ha...if there will be anything decent to tell. My story will probably be "we had a nice dinner and got our nails done and went to bed early".

Mr. ElineBelbi and I have an agreement - I don't want to hear anything about his bachelor party and he doesn't want to hear anything about mine.

[WT661]

haha youre gonna have fun.

Havent had many hangovers the last few years. Bunch of water and aspirin beside the table and wet towel always on the side of the bed before I knock out.
Drinking water throughout the night after drinking plus as much in the middle of the night. I usually pop in a couple aspirins 2-3 hrs before I wake up. And to prevent headaches I have a wet cold tower to put on my head.

I wake up fresh and good to go in the morning.

[cm4short]

haha youre gonna have fun.

Havent had many hangovers the last few years. Bunch of water and aspirin beside the table and wet towel always on the side of the bed before I knock out.
Drinking water throughout the night after drinking plus as much in the middle of the night. I usually pop in a couple aspirins 2-3 hrs before I wake up. And to prevent headaches I have a wet cold tower to put on my head.

I wake up fresh and good to go in the morning.

How do you manage the wet towel thing during intercourse?

[boags]

Reverse cowgirl. Everybody wins.

[ElineBelbi]

My hangover remedy usually just involves me puking my guts out, whether I have to or not. Come home - down a HUGE glass of water as fast as I can and then puke it all out. Then I drink a big glass o' water - take a couple aspirin and hit the hay.

During the night, as I wake up, I drink more water/take more aspirin. I'm sure my liver is screaming in agony the whole time but oh well, there are plenty of ways I torture my body so I'm not going to worry about it right now.

Then in the morning, I eat a nice greasy breakfast, smoke cigarettes and drink coffee until my eyes can focus again. That's healthy, right?

My mother paid for the wedding ceremony, and thoughtfully didn't schedule it until 5 pm the next day. I'm pretty sure that's partly because she's going to be wrecked as well.

[ElineBelbi]

Also, I was just talking to Mr. Belbi about his bachelor party and he said he's going for "steak and a blowjob" to see if he could get a rise out of me and I looked at him and said "Why would you pay for a blowjob?!".

I won that round.

[WT661]

How do you manage the wet towel thing during intercourse?

LOL. at that point, headache goes away.