Not buying girls drinks......Pimpin or Cheap?

[MangoPort]

A female is not going to go from not feeling you, to wanting to fuck just because you bought her a drink, or vice versa.

Think of it this way, if some wack broad bought you a drink, would you think any differently of her (unless she roofied ur bitch ass)? If a fine broad you were feeling vibes from didnt buy you a drink, would you dismiss her and call her cheap at the end of the night?

Females are no different --- dont turn 1 + 1 into calculus, and over think things. If you wanna buy her a drink because you are feeling the evening, and her, do it. But a drink has no impact on how the night will turn out.

Buying a girl a drink and letting her have some from your bottles are the same thing, and guys do it all the time. The reason is for the forced communication.

When you buy a girl a drink most girls will feel obligated to at least chat with you for a short bit. Some guys can workout all they want, have great charisma and opening lines, but if someone else says "let me buy you a drink" a lot of girls will simply follow THAT guy to the bar and now he has his chance to get to know the girl. If he's not creepy then it's game set and match before other guys have even had a chance to work their charm.

It's the same reason it's easier to get girls when you have bottle service - sure, simply having bottle service shows you have money, but when girls come to your table for the free drinks they are obligated to at least give you the time of day (night). This leads to them getting to know you over the thousand other guys on the dance floor.

I don't like getting used, but I would rather be used for a free drink than go home alone and say "yeah well I saved $10".

Of course, I'm married and glad to be out of the game, but the strategies others use certainly haven't changed.

[Guest]

For those that are still in the game and get tables, don't feel shy at all to tell the girls to get the drinks from the other tables, and when they are done doing their "run" and they can come back to your table You'd be surprised how being blunt would work out better in the long run.

[MikeyTantalo]

uhm... depends.. if your diggin her.. cool.. when she offers.. take her home!

[jayredm]

your clearing not going after right single girls, and you need to give them a bagel for walk back

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EkrJ-U7ja1c

clearly meant as a joke don''t take his advice to heart

Dude that was fucking great lol

[Boogie]

She can buy me a drink for giving her the honour and the privilege of my company. If you got game than you got the power to have her buy you drinks. But if I enjoying her company and planning on doing a shot, no biggie buying her one as long as she knows next round on her.

Boogie has spoken. Booyah!!!

[not a vet but no rookie]

A female is not going to go from not feeling you, to wanting to fuck just because you bought her a drink, or vice versa.

Think of it this way, if some wack broad bought you a drink, would you think any differently of her (unless she roofied ur bitch ass)? If a fine broad you were feeling vibes from didnt buy you a drink, would you dismiss her and call her cheap at the end of the night?

Females are no different --- dont turn 1 + 1 into calculus, and over think things. If you wanna buy her a drink because you are feeling the evening, and her, do it. But a drink has no impact on how the night will turn out.

I disagree. Some girls expect guys to buy them drinks and while buying drinks doesn't guarantee you'll get laid, NOT buying drinks guarantees that you will not get laid.

One time at Marquee this semi-attractive chick told my boy that her and some of her friends wanted some drinks. My boy pointed to the bar and I said "They take cash or credit". That was the last exchange we had with that group.

Something definitely would have went down if we had bought them drinks

[RickyRekon]

A female is not going to go from not feeling you, to wanting to fuck just because you bought her a drink, or vice versa.

Think of it this way, if some wack broad bought you a drink, would you think any differently of her (unless she roofied ur bitch ass)? If a fine broad you were feeling vibes from didnt buy you a drink, would you dismiss her and call her cheap at the end of the night?

Females are no different --- dont turn 1 + 1 into calculus, and over think things. If you wanna buy her a drink because you are feeling the evening, and her, do it. But a drink has no impact on how the night will turn out.

I disagree. Some girls expect guys to buy them drinks and while buying drinks doesn't guarantee you'll get laid, NOT buying drinks guarantees that you will not get laid.

One time at Marquee this semi-attractive chick told my boy that her and some of her friends wanted some drinks. My boy pointed to the bar and I said "They take cash or credit". That was the last exchange we had with that group.

Something definitely would have went down if we had bought them drinks

Girls that actually hit you up for a drink? It's exactly that false sense of entitlement that works me up. Props to your brother for a humourous and manly comeback to that free loading come on. Unless I'm dating a woman and have somehow assumed responsibility for her well being and happiness, the likelyhood of me buying them a drink is low. Now... Bringing them back to my table is another story doesn't cost anything to sit and make her laugh a bit

[Guest]

A female is not going to go from not feeling you, to wanting to fuck just because you bought her a drink, or vice versa.

Think of it this way, if some wack broad bought you a drink, would you think any differently of her (unless she roofied ur bitch ass)? If a fine broad you were feeling vibes from didnt buy you a drink, would you dismiss her and call her cheap at the end of the night?

Females are no different --- dont turn 1 + 1 into calculus, and over think things. If you wanna buy her a drink because you are feeling the evening, and her, do it. But a drink has no impact on how the night will turn out.

I disagree. Some girls expect guys to buy them drinks and while buying drinks doesn't guarantee you'll get laid, NOT buying drinks guarantees that you will not get laid.

One time at Marquee this semi-attractive chick told my boy that her and some of her friends wanted some drinks. My boy pointed to the bar and I said "They take cash or credit". That was the last exchange we had with that group.

Something definitely would have went down if we had bought them drinks

Lol your boy my boy Gios favorite line!

[not a vet but no rookie]

A female is not going to go from not feeling you, to wanting to fuck just because you bought her a drink, or vice versa.

Think of it this way, if some wack broad bought you a drink, would you think any differently of her (unless she roofied ur bitch ass)? If a fine broad you were feeling vibes from didnt buy you a drink, would you dismiss her and call her cheap at the end of the night?

Females are no different --- dont turn 1 + 1 into calculus, and over think things. If you wanna buy her a drink because you are feeling the evening, and her, do it. But a drink has no impact on how the night will turn out.

I disagree. Some girls expect guys to buy them drinks and while buying drinks doesn't guarantee you'll get laid, NOT buying drinks guarantees that you will not get laid.

One time at Marquee this semi-attractive chick told my boy that her and some of her friends wanted some drinks. My boy pointed to the bar and I said "They take cash or credit". That was the last exchange we had with that group.

Something definitely would have went down if we had bought them drinks

Girls that actually hit you up for a drink? It's exactly that false sense of entitlement that works me up. Props to your brother for a humourous and manly comeback to that free loading come on. Unless I'm dating a woman and have somehow assumed responsibility for her well being and happiness, the likelyhood of me buying them a drink is low. Now... Bringing them back to my table is another story doesn't cost anything to sit and make her laugh a bit

Yeah I mean they tried to play it off and asked for it like a few minutes of convo and not right off the bat but still.

They at least could have been like "want to go to the bar?". They had no shame and no interest in hiding their intentions which is good in a way I guess

[wowzers83]

I disagree. Some girls expect guys to buy them drinks and while buying drinks doesn't guarantee you'll get laid, NOT buying drinks guarantees that you will not get laid.

One time at Marquee this semi-attractive chick told my boy that her and some of her friends wanted some drinks. My boy pointed to the bar and I said "They take cash or credit". That was the last exchange we had with that group.

Something definitely would have went down if we had bought them drinks

Girls that actually hit you up for a drink? It's exactly that false sense of entitlement that works me up. Props to your brother for a humourous and manly comeback to that free loading come on. Unless I'm dating a woman and have somehow assumed responsibility for her well being and happiness, the likelyhood of me buying them a drink is low. Now... Bringing them back to my table is another story doesn't cost anything to sit and make her laugh a bit

Yeah I mean they tried to play it off and asked for it like a few minutes of convo and not right off the bat but still.

They at least could have been like "want to go to the bar?". They had no shame and no interest in hiding their intentions which is good in a way I guess

lmao...I remember when I was just around 21, i seen a girl I havent seen for awhile. I always had the hotts for her, she knew it. We always flirted(well, her waving it in my face knowing I would never get it), and this night was no difference. After a good time of catch up, i guess she wanted to impress her friend and she tells me "You need to me be a drink right now". I couldnt help but laugh in her face as she was still in training. She stuttered and everything.
If she did it a different way, she prob would of gotten a drink.