Tips on having fun on the dance floor with girls?

[VegasCherry]

That grabbing girls thing will work for some girls but the results are short term. Like through the rest of the song short term and it certainly won't get her to go home with you. Trust. I've had plenty of dudes come up from behind and start grinding. I'm nice and I will dance with the guy until the end whatever is playing (MAYBE) I've seen some girls turn around and actually say 'Not happening'. Can't say I blame them. If you wanna embarrass yourself a couple times before you find a girl that won't tell you to fuck off, be my guest. Please include the details in your TR. And of course, this will all vary depending on what club you're at. Coming up from behind is more acceptable at a hip hop club than a mostly EDM one imo.

On a similar note, actually indicating to a chick you want to dance with her, not just her ass, will get you much further. Unless you're ugly of course.

[truth]

That grabbing girls thing will work for some girls but the results are short term. Like through the rest of the song short term and it certainly won't get her to go home with you. Trust. I've had plenty of dudes come up from behind and start grinding. I'm nice and I will dance with the guy until the end whatever is playing (MAYBE) I've seen some girls turn around and actually say 'Not happening'. Can't say I blame them. If you wanna embarrass yourself a couple times before you find a girl that won't tell you to fuck off, be my guest. Please include the details in your TR. And of course, this will all vary depending on what club you're at. Coming up from behind is more acceptable at a hip hop club than a mostly EDM one imo.

On a similar note, actually indicating to a chick you want to dance with her, not just her ass, will get you much further. Unless you're ugly of course.

Most girls seem to be a little more polite in Vegas (maybe cause its Vegas). I haven't been single in 4 years, so I don't really have to worry about this. But, I observe many of my friends attempting it. For the most part, the worst you are going to get is a girl that walks away. They won't cause a scene because they dont know you and in most cases they are a long way from their comfort zone.

The best way, is obviously to try and find a group of girls (3-4) and ask all of them if they mind if you dance with them. Usually they won't have an issue with this (again unless you are ugly). From their you can judge which ones are the most into you. From their (depending on your bankroll) offer to buy some drinks either for the group, or the one you have hit it off with.

If you bought drinks for the whole group, introduce them to the rest of your group. If you are buying a drink for only one of them, make sure she accompanies you to the bar (you can observe if she acts different outside of her group). From there you can strike up a basic conversation while at the bar, start with the introductions "Hi I'm", "Where are you from" that type of stuff. The easiest thing from there is to just talk about Vegas. Remember a girl that is there for a "girls weekend" is going to be all about the Vegas experience, try not to roll your eyes while she tells you how many "big drinks" she had while wondering the strip.

From there, you should have a foot in the door, order a drink and a shot (I suggest patron). And return with her to the group (this part is key!!). Chances are there is the one "responsible" one in the group and if you have been gone to long, shes going to come looking for her friend. If you have any hopes of hooking up, you gotta get the friends either occupied (introducing your group) or establish a bit of trust.

From there, its all up to you.

[d0nnald]

Memoirs from my years of clubbing experience haha

-smile and look inviting (aka not creepy)..body language plays a big role in nightclubs

-Don't go behind a girl and grab her hips/ass/etc. and expect her to dance with you. unless your PBS (pretty boy swagger! lol) is super high, you will most likely fail!

-If she says no or later, don't get offended and just move on to the next one!

-Your window of opportunity is no more then 15 seconds..basically if you eye a girl, and she notices you..if you don't make a move within that 15 seconds and approach her, your chances of meeting her have just been killed

-bring a wingman, it's always easier to approach a group of girls with a reasonable amount of manpower (no more then 3 guys). anymore and you and your friends will look like creepers

-don't be that guy who walks laps around the dance floor with his drink, girls do notice that.

-certain songs are practically open invitation to dance with a girl...ie pitbull and neyo "grab somebody sexy and tell them hey.."

But at the end of the day, it's all about having a good time and if it looks like you and your friends are having fun. Meeting and dancing with girls shouldn't be an issue. You're there to have fun, and girls are there to have a good time too.

[ReleaseTheCrackin]

People really serious with verbally asking a girl to dance....In an nightclub???? In Vegas??? In 2011???Man, please. This aint a 1955 sock hop in Kansas. Nut up, and just grab her. If she's not down, somebody else will be. Unless you're hurt, that is.

+11 if they are not down.. tell em GTFO

Yup! Always have the mindset that its her loss and K.I.M.

[ReleaseTheCrackin]

That grabbing girls thing will work for some girls but the results are short term. Like through the rest of the song short term and it certainly won't get her to go home with you. Trust. I've had plenty of dudes come up from behind and start grinding. I'm nice and I will dance with the guy until the end whatever is playing (MAYBE) I've seen some girls turn around and actually say 'Not happening'. Can't say I blame them. If you wanna embarrass yourself a couple times before you find a girl that won't tell you to fuck off, be my guest. Please include the details in your TR. And of course, this will all vary depending on what club you're at. Coming up from behind is more acceptable at a hip hop club than a mostly EDM one imo.

On a similar note, actually indicating to a chick you want to dance with her, not just her ass, will get you much further. Unless you're ugly of course.

Thats why I like hip hop. Less stuck up and pretentious.

But lets be real...I understand what you're saying, but its all about if you are feeling the other person, right? Thats what it comes down to. If some sloppy cat was the nicest guy in the world, you would just keep it at hello or maybe a pity dance. But if Enrique Inglesis lookin dude was grindin up on you in a less than chivalrous manner, I doubt you would dismiss him.

Like when I had bottle service, and this banging chick spilled a drink on me. I was all nice and understanding. Had she been lookin like Chloe Kardashian, I might have spazzed on her.

This is a visual world, sorry to say. Im a spiritual brotha, but I leave that shit in San Diego when I hit Vegas!

[VegasCherry]

That grabbing girls thing will work for some girls but the results are short term. Like through the rest of the song short term and it certainly won't get her to go home with you. Trust. I've had plenty of dudes come up from behind and start grinding. I'm nice and I will dance with the guy until the end whatever is playing (MAYBE) I've seen some girls turn around and actually say 'Not happening'. Can't say I blame them. If you wanna embarrass yourself a couple times before you find a girl that won't tell you to fuck off, be my guest. Please include the details in your TR. And of course, this will all vary depending on what club you're at. Coming up from behind is more acceptable at a hip hop club than a mostly EDM one imo.

On a similar note, actually indicating to a chick you want to dance with her, not just her ass, will get you much further. Unless you're ugly of course.

Thats why I like hip hop. Less stuck up and pretentious.

But lets be real...I understand what you're saying, but its all about if you are feeling the other person, right? Thats what it comes down to. If some sloppy cat was the nicest guy in the world, you would just keep it at hello or maybe a pity dance. But if Enrique Inglesis lookin dude was grindin up on you in a less than chivalrous manner, I doubt you would dismiss him.

Like when I had bottle service, and this banging chick spilled a drink on me. I was all nice and understanding. Had she been lookin like Chloe Kardashian, I might have spazzed on her.

This is a visual world, sorry to say. Im a spiritual brotha, but I leave that shit in San Diego when I hit Vegas!

This post had me rolling lol. And you're definitely right.

[readyforvegas]

Bottom line dudes just don't be so freaking serious. When you look like your on a seek n destroy mission it won't look. Look like your enjoying yourself and say Yourself dude I am in Vegas and look like your having a good time. Don't put to much pressure on yourself. If you like a serial rapest probably going spook the ladies away.

[readyforvegas]

Dang I shouldn't post drunk.

[Guest]

People really serious with verbally asking a girl to dance....In an nightclub???? In Vegas??? In 2011???Man, please. This aint a 1955 sock hop in Kansas. Nut up, and just grab her. If she's not down, somebody else will be. Unless you're hurt, that is.

+11 if they are not down.. tell em GTFO

In fact if you try to dance with her and she keeps moving away. Just keep following her to she is completely off the dance floor. That will piss her off and f**k off her night.

hahaha

[cm4short]

+11 if they are not down.. tell em GTFO

In fact if you try to dance with her and she keeps moving away. Just keep following her to she is completely off the dance floor. That will piss her off and f**k off her night.

hahaha

Lmfao... Chase em off the dance floor to ruin her night.

[JavaMan]

I find the best way to have fun with a girl on the dancefloor is to stare deep into her eyes, kiss her, and then stick your hand up her skirt and jam your fingers as deep inside her as they'll go. She'll struggle at first, but she'll slowly come around to the idea. At that point, you then switch it up and go for the shocker, just to keep things interesting.

I agree. A girl thinks it's romantic when you stare deep into her eyes right before you jam your fingers deep inside her.

[Guest]

I find the best way to have fun with a girl on the dancefloor is to stare deep into her eyes, kiss her, and then stick your hand up her skirt and jam your fingers as deep inside her as they'll go. She'll struggle at first, but she'll slowly come around to the idea. At that point, you then switch it up and go for the shocker, just to keep things interesting.

I agree. A girl thinks it's romantic when you stare deep into her eyes right before you jam your fingers deep inside her.

lmfao the direction of this thread can be questionable.. but i m glad we are keeping it real around here

[paul07ss]

Memoirs from my years of clubbing experience haha

-smile and look inviting (aka not creepy)..body language plays a big role in nightclubs

-Don't go behind a girl and grab her hips/ass/etc. and expect her to dance with you. unless your PBS (pretty boy swagger! lol) is super high, you will most likely fail!

-If she says no or later, don't get offended and just move on to the next one!

-Your window of opportunity is no more then 15 seconds..basically if you eye a girl, and she notices you..if you don't make a move within that 15 seconds and approach her, your chances of meeting her have just been killed

-bring a wingman, it's always easier to approach a group of girls with a reasonable amount of manpower (no more then 3 guys). anymore and you and your friends will look like creepers

-don't be that guy who walks laps around the dance floor with his drink, girls do notice that.

-certain songs are practically open invitation to dance with a girl...ie pitbull and neyo "grab somebody sexy and tell them hey.."

But at the end of the day, it's all about having a good time and if it looks like you and your friends are having fun. Meeting and dancing with girls shouldn't be an issue. You're there to have fun, and girls are there to have a good time too.

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