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[Guest]

Wow...don't have too much to say except I guess as a guy, you don't consider that you might be used at a certain age either?

My opinion on cougars is that they are women who are pursuing much younger men. So, I would say min age 35, pursuing a guy in his twenties...a woman is not a cougar, IMO, just because she's over 35 and attractive.

Oh no.. if someone is 35 and attractive that def. doesn't make her a cougar! Yes you are right about the pursuit of the younger man. I m just saying if I was to date a 25+ yr old out here, its 90% likely they have kids. Just prefer them to not have kids so its more compatible with my lifestyle.

[Staggered_UK]

Never go for less than 2/3 your age or more than double your age and it's all good

[Guest]

Never go for less than 2/3 your age or more than double your age and it's all good

Thats an interesting formula there..

[BarrelO]

I've always heard that the formula is half your age plus seven.

[Guest]

I've always heard that the formula is half your age plus seven.

To date younger girls I hope. I m guessing for cougars its half of your age, plus 7?

[BarrelO]

For cougars, do a little algebra to turn the equation into (your age - 7) x 2. So according to the math, I can go as high as 40.

[ellejay]

Oh no.. if someone is 35 and attractive that def. doesn't make her a cougar! Yes you are right about the pursuit of the younger man. I m just saying if I was to date a 25+ yr old out here, its 90% likely they have kids. Just prefer them to not have kids so its more compatible with my lifestyle.

Maybe in your area? In most metropolitan cities women and men tend to wait to get married and have kids, they are busy with career and graduate school. I have older friends and they are all professional women who do not have children. I guess its a social circle thing.

I agree that dating someone with kids is not ideal though!

It just makes me uncomfortable to label women just because of their age. Although to be honest once I was accosted by a cougar (she HAD to be in her 40s) at Tryst in the bathroom who reached out and grabbed my stomach, then turned to her friend and said "She never had any kids" It was totally weird and to be honest... creepy.

[Cisco419]

For cougars, do a little algebra to turn the equation into (your age - 7) x 2. So according to the math, I can go as high as 40.

So that means 36 is as high as I can go! Nice!

[Cisco419]

On a second note... talk about thread jackers.. this went from XS to Dnix's Down under show to cougars... typical JC forums for ya!!!

[Guest]

Maybe in your area? In most metropolitan cities women and men tend to wait to get married and have kids, they are busy with career and graduate school.

Yes you are right, it is really in the area where I live of Orange County ( bordering LA county which might have something to do with it!). It could be like an income or a social demographic thing that chicks just pop them kids out when they are 16 and definitely before they are 24.

Although to be honest once I was accosted by a cougar (she HAD to be in her 40s) at Tryst in the bathroom who reached out and grabbed my stomach, then turned to her friend and said "She never had any kids" It was totally weird and to be honest... creepy.

Wow in most cases I would say thats pretty hot, but if it was a Cougar then I would see it more as a predator vs prey type of thing. I will warn the gf when she needs to go at Tryst.

[uejjap]

I went this past Saturday... and it was probably the only place that didn't reject me for wearing a t-shirt! My cousin and I arrived fairly early and walked in without problems.... they were literally shoveling as many people into the club as possible!

[ellejay]

That is surprising! what time is fairly early?

[uejjap]

If I'm not mistaken they open their doors at 11?? In either case, we were there about 15min after they opened the doors.

[Strong]

So you were there at around 11pm and got in quick wearing a T-Shirt?? Thats awesome..GG

[Guest]

If I'm not mistaken they open their doors at 11?? In either case, we were there about 15min after they opened the doors.

I wouldn't recommend trying this on a holiday weekend