Biggest Pet Peeve While LV Clubbing?

[ellejay]

[QUOTE=SoCal Girl;19387]

ha! no its all bad! Guys will also try to reach up my skirt. I am not the only one they do this too, i bet many girls on this site have had unwanted attention! I don't even have a banging ass and it gets grabbed at the club. I will go and tell on them if I know who did it. Who knows who else they have grabbed?



This happened to my friend and I at Tryst about 2 weeks ago. I understand the dancing behind me and guys getting close. But once he started pulling up my skirt with one hand, "roaming" with his other hand and kissing my neck I was done with him. And this was after his friend made fun of where we were from. Another guy kept pushing my friend and I to dance closer to each other. He was a college basketball coach in town to scout for players. My poor friend hasn't been to a club since getting married and every time a guy grabbed/rubbed her butt I thought I was going to die laughing at the faces she made. Other than them we met some really nice guys.

Thank you for posting a reply!!! I KNEW I wasn't crazy!!!

[ellejay]

Usually if somethine like that happens to a chic that's close to where were chillin at either one of the girls with us or myself or bro will kinda grab her and pull her away from the guy trying to be all up her ass. it's pretty funny too cause it makes us look like the nice guys and we end up having a few drinks together

diabolical!!! I like it!

[Cisco419]

diabolical!!! I like it!

haha it's called opportunity!

[dnix]

Think about it ladies, these guys are on a mission. They have figured out they can tell within 10mins if your DTF or not. If your ok with any of these tactics, your prob. DTF. If your not, they dont have to waste anymore time on you.

Honestly, you should be glad guys have figured this out. It makes it easy on you to find out who the assholes are.

[madscientist]

LV Clubbing Peeves:

1. Not being able to sit when I want (my feet are very tender)

2. The "Sausage Wall" (Thank you for finally giving me a term that REALLY fits)

3. People who bring drinks on the dance floor (Maybe because I am tall I am a beacon for getting drinks spilled on me?)

4. TOTALLY agree about the guys who hit on anything that move. I hate it even worse when they act like I am the jerk beause I don't feel like having them heavy breath on me.

5. Also an aside, I hate it when I am looking up reviews on Yelp and everytime a girl gets into a club free she has to go on and on and on about it! Most girls get in free!!!

6. I hate when guys at the club try to undo a piece of my clothing. Once I was dancing with a guy and I found him trying to undo a knot on my dress. Another time a zipper. Its so creepy and weird.

Oh, Ellejay, you hit it right on...
#1 - me too! i've totally given up on heels in clubs there, its just too ridiculous, once you add in the slippery floor, hard ass asphalt outside, and all the people that will step directly on your open toe sandal and not even notice

#5 - yeah, its like, lets review the IMPORTANT things

#6 - YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE, MY FRIEND! this has happened to me so many times i can't count, and not only in Vegas. i really wanna know what these guys are thinking, that i'll just come completely out the dress in the middle of the dancefloor and it'll be "whatever?" uh.... not so much

and whoever it was that mentioned Mardi Gras, well you are quite right because that's where i went to college and there was not a night in the french quarter that i wasn't pulled towards some dude by an article of my clothing, or had said article of clothing readjusted for me (unzipped, unbuttoned, strap pulled down, dress pulled up). i've had guys try to put a finger, or even a tongue (don't ask) in/on a body part like that's the thing to do in the middle of the historic district. sigh... i could go on but i'll save you the gory details

[Keebler]

and whoever it was that mentioned Mardi Gras, well you are quite right because that's where i went to college and there was not a night in the french quarter that i wasn't pulled towards some dude by an article of my clothing, or had said article of clothing readjusted for me (unzipped, unbuttoned, strap pulled down, dress pulled up). i've had guys try to put a finger, or even a tongue (don't ask) in/on a body part like that's the thing to do in the middle of the historic district. sigh... i could go on but i'll save you the gory details

Sounds like everything you see on a daily night down Bourbon St. Ive seen some crazy things happen (and have been part of some but thats for another time) but if you went to college there you know exactly what im talkin about. I have a buddy who went to Tulane at the same time i was in college.

[Keebler]

Do you do the white man 2 step? just a little side to side motion?

[SoCal Girl]

^^ on that note... my strategy is to stand around looking nervous dancing on the dance floor.

Good strategy my friend is a sucker for the standing nervous guy on the dance floor. She pulls them in and makes them dance. We've met some great people that way.

[ellejay]

Thank you madscientist! See guys another woman!!!

The think about guys is even when girls are DTF they need a little more than some quick dry humping on the dancefloor and drunken grabbing. Some girls I know who are.... lets just say..... easy breezy, are still really put off by that. It pretty much shows that the guy is going to be lame in the sack.

BTW I am totally not knocking guys who are just going to sleep with chicks. Its natural, however there really is a line.

I think being the bashful guy works really well. I like them a lot, and it is a great break to hunt someone to dance with rather than be hunted! I almost feel safer because I was the one who made the first move. Weird huh?

[Two girls one vegas]

Good strategy my friend is a sucker for the standing nervous guy on the dance floor. She pulls them in and makes them dance. We've met some great people that way.

I've got a weakness for the cute shy ones too... And I've never had any item of clothing removed/grabbed. You guys are starting to scare me with all the stories .

The wost thing that ever happend to me was a night at the roxbury stunt. Two guys on either side of me making rude humping motions on me while I was dancing with some one else. I'm sure it was very funny, just not from my position. The worst is that I couldn't get them to stop, I guess I'm too nice but they kept coming back until I had to go sit down.

[uejjap]

As an inactive participant in the pursuit of random women, I know first hand that the problem with "cute and shy" is that you're at the mercy of whatever woman is drunk & confident enough to come your way!

[dnix]

I'm lol at this thread. Personally, I think having any kind of stragety is stupid. If you can't be yourself, then just hire a whore.

[ellejay]

Do you have any coupons? Whores are expensive!!

Ha ha! At least a two for one? B1G1?

I think having a strategy is stupid too. But if being yourself is laid back and shy, then it just might work. You are at the mercy of drunk confident women but that isn't the worst thing in the world right?

[Cisco419]

I guess it would be worse if you were at the mercy of drunk confident men.....

You can only hope right?

[dnix]

IMHO being laidback and shy is only going to work for above avg looking guys (majority of the time). If your below avg, you need a good personality. You really need to be able to sale yourself. Regardless of looks, if your good at selling yourself, you'll fall into 2 categories. You'll either be the fun guy that all the girls want to be around, or you'll be the prick that's known for the "use them and loose them".