Guys go there for the eye candy... most may not admit it on here but appreciate the girls who put forth the effort.
For me, the "Try too hard" is about the attitude more than the attire. If a girl is done up (to a reasonable degree) and is rocking a hot suit / heels but has a cool vibe then that's a very very good thing. Now if she's done up the same way but walking around like her shit doesn't stink then she's getting ridiculed.
Wear what you want... just come with a good attitude and embrace the party rather than trying to be too cool to be there in the first place
For me, the "Try too hard" is about the attitude more than the attire. If a girl is done up (to a reasonable degree) and is rocking a hot suit / heels but has a cool vibe then that's a very very good thing. Now if she's done up the same way but walking around like her shit doesn't stink then she's getting ridiculed.
Wear what you want... just come with a good attitude and embrace the party rather than trying to be too cool to be there in the first place
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